I could go on and on about how much of a difference this made in my life. I feel that I’ve finally found that direction to start piecing myself together in a way that I desire and I deserve - to be the man that I’ve only dreamt of being. I feel so damn happy! I’ve always been chasing happiness, but it’s always felt just around the corner. But being in this group, having men hold me accountable, holding space for me, I can feel that happiness is here and it’s always been here. I’ve also found that since we started, I am actually trusting myself and doing the things that I never believed I could do. I finally believe that no matter what life throws at me, I can handle it. But when the burden becomes too strong, I know that I’ve got shoulders to lean on and that these guys are here for me. This has been the rite of passage that I’ve really been needing in my life. This is real! Thank you.

I came into this wanting to connect with men and improve my relationship with my wife, to get feedback, to be seen and heard, to help me with my blind spots, and yet, I really didn’t know what I would get… But I have to say, it’s been absolutely phenomenal. I turn 44 in a couple of days, and I feel leaps and bounds of growth happening within me, and the tools that I got from my experiences in this group has lead me to be able to connect with my wife in a way that I never expected. Working with Allan, and working with all these guys, and the experiences of being held by all of them in this program, allowed me to hold my wife in a way I never knew was possible. I feel so grateful that this world of men’s work has opened up to me. To feel what it’s like to really be seen, and to see all these other men, has been indescribable. I know that because this group of men had me, that they understood me, allowed me to listen, and to be there for my wife in such a beautiful way. I needed this.

I went through some serious challenges in my life during this program, but all these guys were absolute pillars of support for me. I would not be able to do what I’m doing without these powerful men behind me. To have this group of brothers that want the best for me, that want me to challenge myself and to grow, feels so good. I’m so grateful. I love these guys. They have helped me to get to the next level of depth and connection in my relationship, and because of that, I’m able to go out into the world and better help other people do the same. This container was the fire under my ass I needed. I’m so glad I signed up for this program.